The Two Way Street of Love

Love needs to be a two way street of approval and respect. But not just the two way street we always hear of. You give to them and they give back to us. The two ways I'm talking about is your ability to give to your partner, and the ability to give to yourself. Can you love yourself as much as you are expecting your partner to love you? When we discover just how delicate and precious each one of us are, think how easy it becomes to share yourself completely with your lover. Too many of us, though, use relationships as a crutch. We yearn for the attention that we may not have had growing up, but using our relationships to fill a void puts an undue strain on the union. Relationships are very delicately balanced and end way too easy when the pressure of "void filling" comes to the forefront. Your partner is not a Band Aid, psychiatrist, or drug, meant to make us feel better about ourselves - that is our responsibility. If we are in need of issue cleansing our lover is not the one who should be doing it. How much can you really give to someone else when you can't seem to give everything to yourself first?

If you take the time to really think about it, there are so many people who love us. Think about all the friends, lovers and family members that have come and gone in our lives that showed us love. And better yet, think of how great you really are. Feel the freedom to look closely at yourself and love every part of you. You can't love anyone else until you love yourself first. Practicing loving yourself is the best way to learn to love another and the relationship will be made up of two people with self respect. Understanding why you make relationship choices will free your soul to make better choices in the future. Relationships are not something you take from, for any reason. You have to get beyond the regrets and seemingly empty promises of the past, stop putting expectations on your future, and live and love for the moment. When you enter into a love relationship, give your new partner the freedom to express their love for you without taking it from them. We want our partners to be whole and happy people, so the place to start the loving begins with yourself. This moment is not your past. This moment is not the expectant future. This moment is right now. And right now is the most beautiful and perfect place you can be. Feel this moment right now. Deep down, you love yourself like no other has loved you. You'll never run from yourself when things are just going good, would you? Sometimes, when all we have is us, know that there is no better place we can be at this moment. Love yourself and give love to your partner. That is the liberating freedom we all have to create our two way street.

Attract More Happiness Into Your Life

There are apparently a lot written about the multitude of secrets people must learn to turn on the Law of Attraction in their lives. There are methods of compensation, the past life regressions and more. Some experience with hypnosis, while others prefer the simplicity through ads and use positive affirmations.

All methods of work for some people. They would all disappear if they do not work. However, what is the underlying objective of all methods, you must have in common?

All this just to shake and feel happy. When Joseph Campbell said: "Follow your happiness." It May gave the world some of the best advice in history.

The real secret of the law continue to feel pleased that he and radiating happiness as possible. Happy thoughts and feelings make us rejoice positive vibrations. These feelings will attract for their lives. It will take into consideration the people, things and situations that will make you happy.

If you really want to attract something in your life, you'll need to create vibrations that are compatible with each other. Michael Losier speaks of feelings in his book "Law of Attraction" and have Jerry and Esther Hicks. Corresponding to vibrations probably miss the top secrecy that has been absent explanation of the law continues.

For some reason, editors and censors that most people feel uncomfortable with the word "trembling. The word was edited out of the classic Napoleon Hill's" important and growing rich "and 70 years later, she wanted the film censors removed the "secret".

For many thrill word implies something supernatural. People tend to think a third person or things that go bump in the night when they hear the word.

Barry Neil Kaufman possibility of the Institute said happiness is a choice. We all have the opportunity to interpret what is happening to us. A deep belief that what happens in your life is your best will certainly improve your outlook on life.

Many have heard that it takes money to make money. This May or May not be true. What did it look right you have the happiness to produce to demonstrate the things that will bring you more happiness.